Does this happen to anyone else?

I create a new character, but when I use them, their voice sounds...less attractive than in the character creation part. Then, when there's a cutscene, their eyes are too close together/far apart. It's so frustrating. I'll spend an hour trying to make a beautiful elf, but in the actual game, it looks like she's caked on make up.

Anyway... I would love suggestions on which voice set to give a female elf and which to give a female human. I always use the Sultry set for my lady dwarves, and the Violent set for all my male characters.