When it comes to romance, Cassandra prefers the ideals. Someone who sweeps her off her feet with candles, poetry, and flowers. Track these things down for her.
Once in Skyhold, if you have gained enough approval, flirted at every possible opportunity, and completed her previous companion quests, Cassandra informs you that your advances haven’t gone unnoticed. She however remains conflicted as she wants an ideal storybook romance and feels that this isn't possible with the Inquisitor. If you still insist on courting her this way, the quest will unlock.
You will need to find a poetry book, flowers, and candles:
- Talk to the Dwarven Bookseller in Redcliffe Village about poetry books.
- Find the merchant's missing caravan in the western Hinterlands and retrieve the book.
- Talk to the gardener in the courtyard of the Summer Bazaar in Val Royeaux about flowers.
- The Most Romantic Candles in Thedas are found in Pierre-Marie's shop in the Summer Bazaar in Val Royeaux.
- Return to Cassandra and ask to speak privately.
The relationship between Cassandra and the Inquisitor becomes official.
There is a bug in the quest where the Redcliffe bookseller may not talk to you about the poetry book. While you can still get the book by going to the Forest Camp in the Hinterlands and finding the broken caravan, the journal will not recognize the quest as completed.